Cold Days, Cold Feet & Warm Thoughts

What a difference a day makes.  On Thursday, it was sunny and almost 60 degrees… by Friday night the temperature dropped drastically.  On Saturday it was downright frigid with wind chills below zero.   
Clara’s in DC this weekend, visiting her friend Linette.  The original plan was to pick out a bridesmaid’s dress for Linette’s wedding which was supposed to be this summer.  However, Linette and her fiance decided they need more time.  I’m glad Linette’s not rushing into marriage.  It’s such a huge, life changing step… you have to be 100% sure this is the person you want to wake up next to for the rest of your life. 
Jason threw me for a loop this morning when he asked where my "boyfriend" lives and if we would have dinner at the restaurant where he now works.  Boyfriend huh?  B and I agreed to not date anyone else but does that make him my boyfriend?  It seems so simple in high school… when you date a guy, he’s your boyfriend.  Somehow the definitions change when you’re older.  Even MSN changed its relationship status options with the new profiles.  Before, there was "single, not looking" which would be appropriate now.  Now the choices are "single", "married", "separated", "divorced", "in a relationship" and "commited".  What happened to "widowed"?  Aside from "divorced", do I have an option when I’m not looking to date anyone else?  It’s rather confusing. 

About EmilyD

Now in my 50's and still a work in progress. Proud, happy mom of 2 wonderful kids who are married to equally wonderful people. Patiently waiting on grandchildren to spoil. In love with, and happily engaged to, my best friend and looking forward to the rest of the journey on this planet by his side.
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